I have it! The phrase coined by a reporter named Nancy Watkins, (according to the internet and we all know it doesn't lie, right)?
When we decided it was time to sell our property I never envisioned how frustrating it would become.
My husband, bless him, is on a mission to get all the jobs done that need doing. Every time a potential buyer comes but doesn't buy he comes up with a new reason why they didn't and a new project to complete.
He is nearly 75 and disabled, I just had my 71st birthday and am badly in need of two new knees. We really don't need to be doing all this stuff but he persists and out of guilt I do my best to help. It is surprising how much a person can do sitting down. My husband's legs are very weak from the auto immune disease but he is very innovative when he wants to be so his trusty 'box' has had a lot of use these past few months. The box is one he made from scraps of wood which he uses to sit on for outside jobs.
Today, I put my foot down and said No! I am having a day off! He went out and did some stuff but I stayed indoors. We are having really hot and humid weather right now which doesn't agree with either of us. We saw his neurologist yesterday who told us about 'Cooling vests'. He wrote to his PCP asking him to see if the VA will provide one for him. If not we will purchase one for $100.
I am sure that a lot of the people who come to view are just curious but do they realise how much time and effort goes in when a viewing is scheduled. I have a checklist of 15 things that I do for a viewing. Things like put all medications out of sight, apparently viewers are put off by such things. Move the dog beds, same thing. Put on the bed cover, we only sleep under sheets in the summer time but the bedroom looks much nicer with the comforter on. I won't bore you with the rest of the list but you get my drift. These are aside from all the cleaning. My house has never been vacuumed and dusted so much in years lol.
The photos on the listing are not deceptive, unlike some listings where the photos are enhanced to make the rooms look huge, they portray the house as it is. So if people are interested enough to come and look after seeing them they should not be disappointed as the place actually looks a lot better now than when the photos were taken. So, I am a little disappointed and surprised that no one has made an offer yet. The realtor did take new pictures last week when he was showing the house but so far they have not appeared on the listing. Must call him about that.
Also, we have to be out of the house when they come and we have to take the dog so that means we can't go and get a meal or shop or anything because it is too hot to leave Maggie in the vehicle even with windows open so we have to ride round for about an hour and a half.
On the plus side though is that the jobs are getting done, albeit slowly and if we do not manage to sell we are reaping the benefits.
Our biggest job so far was to get the front wall of the workshop replaced and landscaped so as to prevent flooding. This is a job we have ignored for years and years. My husband was convinced that the early viewers were put off by this so we spent quite a lot of money to have a new pathway concreted and a concrete wall put in so that the water wouldn't seep into the shop. Of course, this was well above our pay grade so we contracted the concrete guys to do it. We had to cut down the studs in the wall and splice them back in for the wall and put in framing for the windows.
My husband and I planed and tongue and grooved the cedar for the wall and re-purposed some old windows to put in and my step son spent 4 days of his vacation putting the wall up for us. The prep took us a long time as we can't do much at a time.
The landscaping took a long time also, what would have taken us just days years ago takes us weeks and weeks now.
There is no flooding in front of the shop now even with the nastiest storms.
Here are the before and after pictures.
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| This was a real eyesore |
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| Now it looks really good |
Hope every one who reads my blog is having a good summer and life is as good as it can be.
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